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IN-CONTROL
Virtual Psychological & Coaching Services
WARREN M. STEINMAN, PH.D
Licensed Psychologist and Life Coach
Good therapy empowers. It seeks solutions and sharpens problem-solving skills. It is goal-directed, focused, and strategic. Whether for the purpose of improving relationships, controlling emotions, reducing fears and anxieties, enhancing self-esteem, ending avoidance, or accomplishing other important personal goals, successful therapy empowers, teaches, overcomes barriers, and eliminates tensions. With an objective focus, commitment, and well-designed strategies, effective change can be generated and maintained. Unwanted habits are eliminated; stress and anxiety are reduced; avoidance is confronted; self-control and self-confidence are strengthened, important skills are sharpened. In the process, the client gains a better understanding of him/herself and becomes better at understanding others.
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METHOD
In my approach, the client is helped to define meaningful goals and is empowered to become his/her own problem solver. The therapy is solution-oriented, skill-based, and strategic. Clients become aware of how their own thoughts, feelings, actions, and inactions determine what they experience. Objective strategies for achieving goals are developed, refined, and practiced. Skills are developed and sharpened. The focus is on self-management, awareness, and skill development. The client is empowered with the skills, perspectives, confidence, and personal control necessary to resolve present issues and deal effectively with issues they may encounter in the future.
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The concerns clients bring to therapy are important. It's understood that therapy often can be scary and may be stressful. The courage many clients bring to therapy is remarkable. I feel honored by the trust my clients place in me to help them achieve their goals. Be assured, this a safe and caring place to work on yourself. I am gratified by the success and enthusiasm shown by my clients.
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CREDENTIALS
I have been a licensed psychologist practicing in New Mexico for over 35 years (NM322). I also have been licensed to practice as a psychologist in Hawaii for over 10 years (HI1273). Before that, I was a tenured professor of psychology at two major universities. I taught and conducted research in child and clinical psychology. I also was the director the clinical psychology training program at one university and was the chairman of the psychology department at the other university. I also have served as a mediator, psychological evaluator, therapist, expert witness, and life coach on the staff of several mental health, medical, legal, and public service facilities. Â
(Resume available by request at wsteinman.incontrol@gmail.com).
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COSTS AND CONTACT
At present, no in-person therapy is available. All therapeutic contact is online. 30-minute live video or phone sessions are available for $40 each. 50-minute sessions are $70. Explanatory worksheets and text messages are available without charge. There also is no charge for the first 30-minute live video session. Sessions can be used as needed or as the client desires -- weekly, twice weekly, monthly, etc. Payment is by direct bank transfer through Zelle.com prior to the session. Zelle membership is readily available at most banks. Payment by health insurance is not currently available.  However, clients can receive invoices with which they may seek insurance reimbursement.
Sessions are scheduled at the client's convenience, within the available days and hours published by the provider.
If you’re interested in learning more about the services available, get in touch through wsteinman.incontrol@gmail.com.
CLIENT COMMENTS
Recent comments of clients engaged in teletherapy with Dr. Steinman
L.I. (09/20/2022): Helpful and listens. The tips and tricks provided have helped.
R.I. (08/30/2022): Very insightful, attentive, and gives good techniques and advice to help with different situations. He gives me practical ways to manage conflict etc.
V.I. (04/25/2022): Very friendly, attentive and honest!
C.O.(04/16/2022): Dr. Steinman sends you thoughtful and carefully constructed messages. He is nice and pleasant to speak with and he likes to give you different ways to look at your situation and to challenge any negative beliefs you have. I would recommend him :)
M.I. (03/29/2022): Professional. Respectful. Courteous. Forthright. Impartial.
N.A. (03/28/2022): Dr. Steinman is a great listener and is great at helping me create goals to accomplish the outcomes I am looking for.
C.H. (02/28/2022): Really calm, respectful, and willing to challenge you to establish and meet your goals - a fantastic and experienced professional.
A.R. (12/27/2021): Dr. Steinman is the best therapist I've had. He's very understanding and listens to my problems. I love his action-oriented solutions.
A.M. (10/29/2021): Dr. Steinman really helped me in a rough patch by giving me personalized ways to get through the day. Though our sessions were short they were helpful.
K.I. (10/01/2021): Super helpful! Great listener and provided the right level of advice and coaching. Suggested tools to work on, which is very important.
R.O. (04/17/2021): Dr. Steinman is great!
E.L. (03/08/2021): Dr. Steinman is a wonderful therapist. He is easy to talk to and has great insight. He is honest and will tell you what you might not want to hear, but you need to hear. He has greatly helped me widen my view of thinking and made me aware of issues that I can do better with. He asked me important questions and helped give me a whole new perspective on my familial and romantic relationships. Five stars.
C.A. (02/17/2021): He is great! Very knowledgable and kind.
K.A. (01/26/2021): A great counselor through and through. Listens to everything you have to say and gives great, helpful advice. He always responds ASAP and helps in anyway he can. Overall a great counselor and even better person!
B.A. (01/11/2021): I’m still pretty new to (this kind of therapy) and to Dr. Steinman, but just meeting with him a few times brings me so much hope. And this is powerful. I’m excited to work with him more.
M.A. (12/26/2020): Dr. Steinman is the best counselor I’ve ever had. After going to several providers who I never seemed to click with. I am very grateful.
A.D. (11/10/2020): Dr. Steinman has been quite helpful and it's easy talking to him.
T.I. (09/13/2020): I immediately felt comfortable with Dr. Steinman. He's a good listener and his many years of experience are evident in his insights to what I am going through. He has a calming presence and from our first session helped me become more aware of some of the inner issues that I'm dealing with. He's great!
K.A. (09/09/2020): Very kind and easy to talk to.
M.A. ((08/08/2020): I love him.
M.I. (07/02/2020): Dr. Steinman is very responsive and professional. He is not afraid to say it how it is.
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GET IN TOUCH
IN-CONTROL is committed to meeting or exceeding your goals and needs. Questions, comments or special requests? I’d love to hear from you, so don’t hesitate to reach out today.
1 (505) 660-7660
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